Ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0103n n\u00f3i. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n h\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef mi\u1ec7ng v\u00e0 tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00f4ng tin m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc<\/h2>\n

Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng chi\u00eau tr\u00f2 thao t\u00fang t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f2n k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7y m\u00e0u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 minh ho\u1ea1 nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i vi\u1ebft g\u1ea7n g\u0169i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

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N\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch xoay quanh nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i, nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u1ed5ng quan h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u00e0nh vi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 xung quanh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eafc Nh\u00e2n T\u00e2m – Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u0103n \u0111\u00f3n nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t<\/h2>\n

Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0110\u1eafc Nh\u00e2n T\u00e2m n\u00e0y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng linh thi\u00eang trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. D\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua g\u1ea7n 1 th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi ra m\u1eaft nh\u01b0ng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u00e0y v\u1eabn gi\u1eef v\u1eefng phong \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 v\u1ecb th\u1ebf l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Dale Carnegie t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y . \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tinh t\u1ebf l\u00e0m cho n\u1ed9i dung tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.\u00a0M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1eafc Nh\u00e2n T\u00e2m \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ngay t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n

S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a th\u00f3i quen<\/h2>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch S\u1ee9c M\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a Th\u00f3i Quen c\u1ee7a Charles Duhigg s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 th\u00f3i quen gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

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Ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p tinh t\u1ebf gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi nhau gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 th\u00f3i quen c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, s\u00e1ch c\u00f2n cung c\u1ea5p l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn chung, th\u00f4ng qua cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang b\u1ecb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy nhanh v\u00e0 ch\u1eadm<\/h2>\n

Khi \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3 hai h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng t\u01b0 duy: h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng 1, t\u01b0 duy nhanh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m quan, v\u00e0 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng 2, t\u01b0 duy ch\u1eadm v\u00e0 logic. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc, thay v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u th\u00ec t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111a chi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 duy.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c b\u1ed5 \u00edch m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mang l\u1ea1i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch k\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 phong c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft vui nh\u1ed9n gi\u00fap cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn h\u01a1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec3m b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t<\/h2>\n

Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0110i\u1ec3m B\u00f9ng Ph\u00e1t n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Malcolm Gladwell kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m mang t\u00ednh l\u1ecbch s\u1eed trong vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 khai m\u1edf hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

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\u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t tr\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u linh v\u1ef1c li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng. Qua nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ,Gladwell \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u1ea9n sau s\u1ef1 lan truy\u1ec1n nhanh ch\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m hay c\u00e1c tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch k\u0129 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00e0y th\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00e2ng cao hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh.<\/p>\n

H\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i- s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng<\/h2>\n

Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch im L\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Susan Cain th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 mang \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u1ed5ng quan v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

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T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c khai th\u00e1c v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u h\u1eefu \u00edch cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n